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Divorce and Effect: Its Emotional, Physical, Financial and Societal
Impact
Divorce is one of the most heart wrenching events an individual
must endure. Considering that 40% of marriages in the United States end in divorce, it is a sad reality for
millions of individuals.
The effect of divorce touches many areas of a person’s life, such
as emotional, financial, and physical. The financial aspect of divorce can be staggering. Divorce leads to
two households existing on one income. When children are involved, even with child support, financial hardships
usually arise. Women more often than men are granted custody of the children after a divorce. In some instances,
this reduces their ability to secure high-paying employment.
Divorce may increase financial hardship when child support is not
received, or the non-custodial parent does not feel that they have an obligation toward their children. The
government does provide a welfare system for divorced parents and their dependent children; resulting in even
harsher consequences of divorce and its effect on society as a whole.
Divorce and its Effect on the Whole Family
The grieving process that follows any loss happens in divorce as
well. The dissolution of a marriage is a death of sorts and those going through a divorce grieve. Depression
and anxiety often follow on the heels of a divorce and affect all parties involved, including the children of the
union.
The physical implications of divorce are somewhat controversial.
There have been studies that have shown a positive correlation between divorce and incidence rates of stroke,
cancer, parasitic diseases, acute infectious diseases, and digestive and respiratory illnesses. It was even shown
that married cancer patients are more likely to recover than cancer patients who were divorced. Overall, divorced
men have lower life expectancies than married men. Divorce does have a physical impact, although to exactly what
extent is hotly debated.
Much of the research on the effects of divorce has centered on the
children of divorce. When parents decide to divorce, the effects on their children are numerous. Just a few
examples of what the research has discovered are:
- The best indicator of teen suicide is parental divorce and
living in a single parent home.
- College attendance is 60% lower for children of divorce than
those from intact homes.
- In ratings by parents and teachers on peer relationships,
hostility toward adults, withdrawal, and aggression, children whose parents were divorced performed more poorly
than children from homes that consisted of both parents.
- Children of divorce have a higher incidence of
depression.
Divorce and effect touches every area of a couple’s life, most of
all their children. Its effects leave an imprint emotionally, physically and
financially.
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