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Marriage Bed, Past and Present
A marriage bed is exactly that, the bed that the wedded couple shares together on the night of their wedding. For
some it is simply the bed that the couple share that first night, however it should be the bed the couple share for
the rest of their lives. Of course this means compromise as well, since not everyone shares the same taste in
bedroom décor.
A marriage bed should not be a single or a twin bed, this isn’t going to fit no more than one on the bed and if it
does it won’t be comfortable. The marriage bed should be roomy and relaxing figuring that they will spend most of
their time together in it. No one wants to be on a hard, or lumpy surface. This bed is normally in the center of
the room, surrounded by things the couple loves. A place where they will spend their sleeping hours as well as
their romantic ones together, not to mention where many discussions will be held and care for another may end up
when one gets sick.
Some believe no one besides the married couple should ever see what the marriage bed, this includes family coming
to visit. It is disrespectful for a visitor of the opposite sex to be in the room with the spouse. It is one thing
for the happily married couple to show off their room but never alone.
In history the marriage bed meant the place where the bride gave her body fully over to her husband, which meant
she was a virgin until marriage. It was highly frowned upon that she ever spent the night with any man before
marriage and, if she did, there could be trouble. It was harder for a woman to find any man that would want to
share his marriage bed with her if she was already used.
A marriage bed should be a lot of fun, not only a place of sleep but also a place to be intimate and to try new
things. The marriage bed should never end up being a place to pile all the laundry; it should be a place of meeting
and enjoyment. If you are not finding your marriage bed fits this, maybe you should get a new one. Sometimes buying
something new puts a spark back into things, not to mention it means spending a bit of time to shop once again. Be
careful though, you could end up making your marriage bed a family bed once your kids are born if you don’t set
limits.
When it comes time to shop for a marriage bed both should like it. This means that the married couple or soon to be
married couple should go together, which can be a lot of fun. Find out if you need a firm bed or one with a soft
mattress. Long ago a curtain surrounded a marriage bed so no one could see inside the sacred place. In a way, the
marriage bed became a room of its own that only the married couple would share, creating life and lasting memories.
No one should ever go to bed angry and before getting onto the marriage bed they should make up.
The marriage bed was always a place where the couple would come together at the end of the day. In Medieval times a
wife may not have seen her husband or spoke with him for the entire day, but this is where she’d get to finally
spend some time with him and talk. Today, lives are still like this, however we can actually speak with our spouses
by phone or computers. But the marriage bed is still of place that the couple comes together and it will always be
this way.
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