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Marriage
Proposals That Work
Not always is deciding on marriage proposals and easy choice,
not only do you need to think about what the outcome will be,
how it is done and where. That’s right, women think they have
it hard when it comes time to plan the wedding but the hard
part is actually asking her if she even wants to get
married.
Here are a few marriage proposals that you may want to try out
if you aren’t really sure how to do it or aren’t creative
enough. Women love surprise, romance and meaning…they don’t
just want you to blurt it out during a fight or while waiting
for her to use the restroom. No marriage proposals should ever
be asked while she is sick, blowing her nose, getting dressed
for work, over the phone or right before she is due to get on a
plane. However, on a game board at her favorite sports team,
nice restaurant or simply at home are some great places to do
it. Place a ring on a string and have her go through the whole
house to find out what the surprise is, the ending will make
her smile and give you enough time to get the words out. Don’t
forget the flowers though.
Marriage proposals can be really romantic if they are planned
out, just keep in mind of a second plan just in case things
don’t go as planned. You never know if she’ll catch on,
especially if she is already in the middle of something else.
My husband’s marriage proposal became marriage proposals
because he had to repeat himself. I heard a knock on the door,
answered; he was in his dress blues and asked me to marry him.
Only problem was I was on the phone, long distance. I opened
the door, let him in, gave him my pointer finger, which meant
in a minute and went back to talking. He ended up dropping to
his knee and asking while I was on the phone. I caught it that
time and will never forget it. It was not planned out and was
spur of the moment, he knew what he wanted and knew what my
answer would be.
Of course if you don’t know the answer you could end up with
one you didn’t plan on.. in front of a whole room of guests.
Think about her and how she will react before putting her on
the spot. Not all marriage proposals go off without a problem,
so be careful in the way you plan it. Are you going to bake the
ring in a dish? If you are, make sure she doesn’t actually
swallow it and have to have it pumped from her stomach, while
this may be a memory it isn’t one you want.
For a few more fun marriage proposals you can try making her a
home movie and choosing to stay home one night with her and
watch it. Have all types of memories on it, from birthday
meals, holidays, etc but don’t forget the ending… you on the
tape telling her you have one question for her and showing her
a little box. Suddenly, she turns to you and you get to ask.
See the hard part is already done; now all you do is wait for
the answer. Another idea is to have a plane write it in the sky
for her, or make her a meal in bed and drizzle the syrup so it
asks her for you.
Marriage proposals are something that should be able to look
back upon and have smiles or tears come to the eyes of those
that remember. Think of a favorite or romantic restaurant to
take her to and ask her there, or choose to do it at the
location of where the first date was or where you met her.
These are meaningful places to both you and her and will
forever have meaning.
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