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Romance Fundamentals: Flirting 101
To begin, you don’t want to be too aggressive. Start with very friendly gestures and once you have gotten those moves down, and then go for the romantic flirting!
Flirting is a frame of mind: Be self-confident and do not be afraid to take risks. Be enthusiastic about romance and be positive!
Start a sexy conversation: Start with a simple, opening line by saying hello. Talk about anything at all, whatever will get the romance going.
Enjoy yourself and have fun: Be playful, light-hearted and above all, be spontaneous. Show that you can be vulnerable.
Make good use of all props: Always use a prop. Props will get the conversation started naturally. They encourage conversation and others will want to start talking to you. Great props are: pets, children, great jewelry, a wonderful scent, a sweatshirt with your favorite sports team’s emblem, an interesting book or magazine.
Play host: Take the lead by taking on the role of host. Do not be the passive person in waiting, but rather the lead.
Introduce yourself first: Move closer to the person you want to meet and introduce yourself confidently!
Listen-up: Everyone loves to be heard and when you are a good listener your partner will be drawn to you.
Make bold eye contact: Look your partner in the eye gently (no more than 2-4 seconds) and then look away. You don’t want to stare!
Pay a genuine compliment: Your partner will be pleased and will warm up to you more.
Show a beautiful smile: You will look so much more approachable. Everyone is attracted to a genuine and heartfelt, smile.
So there you go! These are all ground-breakers when wanting to approach someone with romance. We must always be mindful of the fundamentals.
When we just dive right in, unexpected, we can turn our loved one off. Go slow, a step at a time and feeling confident, approach with your best romance moves.
Enhance Your Love Life With A Special Gift of ROSES
Have you ever wished you could come up with a new gift idea to show your loved one how you feel?
Have you ever wondered about what the different colors of Roses actually mean? For instance, next time you choose a specific color of Rose, do so to convey a special meaning.
Look below and learn what the different Rose colors represent and next time you buy a Rose as a gift, deliver a loving message at the same time.
Colored Roses and What Each Color Means:
Red - Love, I Love You
Pink - Perfect Happiness, Please Believe Me
Peach - Modesty
White - Innocence and Purity, I am Worthy of You, You're Heavenly
Orange - Fascination
Yellow - Texas Love, Joy and Friendship
Single Full Bloomed Rose - I Love You, I Still Love You
White and Red Mixed - Unity
Rosebud - Beauty and Youth, A Heart of Innocent Love
Rosebud (Red) - Pure and Lovely
Rosebud (White) - Girlhood
Bridal - Happy Love
Christmas - Tranquilize My Anxiety
Damask - Persian Ambassador of Love
Dark Crimson - Mourning or Loss
Hibiscus - Delicate Beauty
Leaf - You May Hope
Tea - I'll Remember Always
Thornless - Love at First Sight
Bouquet
of Mature Blooms - Gratitude
Next time you buy your loved one a Rose as a gift, attach a handwritten card to convey the message to him/her that the color means. This is a great way to enhance your love life!
Here are some great examples for you to adapt for yourself:
Tea Rose -- Last night was very special. I'll Remember Always!
Dark Crimson -- You mean so much to me. Can we try again just one more time?
Rosebud (Red) -- You take my breath away! You look so lovely!
Orange -- You fascinate me! Can we spend more time
together?
Even smaller, simpler messages will enhance your love life and will thrill your partner!
Some men just aren’t in tune with their romantic side. Fortunately, most men can be taught, given the right attitude. Proceed carefully and don't ever pressure your man into romance. Here are some initial tips:
The golden rule is to lead by example.
Remember, you want your man to take the lead, but, on his terms, not yours. Start by pampering him. Do what he likes to do best -- even if that is drinking with the chums, playing a video game, or just watching TV on a Saturday night.
Doing this, a spicy ending to any of these activities will be much more favorable for him. Afterwards, show him you'd appreciate similar attention towards you, and eventually he'll get the bigger picture.
Take charge of a great night out with your man.
Plan an entire night on the town and then let your man just come along for the ride. Women need to appreciate just how difficult it can be for the man to always be the one to find creative and fun things to do.
It can be very romantic for the man when his lady takes charge in this way, finding a new restaurant and activity for them to enjoy. The man can find this very exciting and will be open to romance afterwards, once an enjoyable evening has been spent together.
Turn romance into a competitive game.
Alternate planning weekly date nights with your man and plan an activity that will appeal to his competitive nature. Men will often want to take the lead here because they find great pleasure in outdoing their mate.
Finally, make sure your man knows how much you appreciate the little things that he does for you.
This can be cooking a great meal when you are tired, opening the car door for you, treating you to a chocolate heart when you are feeling blue, any number of thoughtful, little things.
Make a point of mentioning that he does this for you in front of your friends and watch the envy of the other ladies ooze all over the place! Your man will take notice and feel loved! Romantic moments should quicken with this plan!
There are definite things that you can do to encourage your man’s romantic nature. All he may need is a little suggestion, knowing how much he is appreciated and a few well thought out challenges to get his creative juices flowing.
On the next page we will examine the Many Expressions of Love.
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It is rather difficult to be romantic without first
flirting.
