Ways To Enhance Your Love Life

Enhance Your Love Life By Being More Affectionate 

            * While your love is preparing the next meal go up behind him or her, and slide your arms around their waist. Nuzzle your face into the side of their neck and tell them how much you love them. 

            * When walking past your loved one, brush by them with a quick touch. This could be a quick touch to the small of the back, shoulder or waist.  Softly kiss your loved one on the cheek. 

              *Snuggle your love while on the couch. Hold hands, caress her softly and kiss during commercials. 

            * Hold your sweetheart's hand while driving in the car, or walking together. 

            * Offer to brush her hair. 

           *  While having dinner together, touch hands often. 

Enhance Your Love Life By Showing Random Acts 

Showing random acts of affection liberally will put a smile on your loved one’s face. They will feel good, and that will cause you to feel good. Showing random acts of affection is all part of being thoughtful. 

Show affection towards your partner for no reason and at completely spontaneous times. Why should showing your love by cuddling and kissing be limited to certain situations? 

When you are showing random acts of affection to your partner they feel inspired to do the same thing! 

Over time, your relationship needs an injection of new blood and showing random acts of affection guarantees your love life is active and well. You feel less like roommates and more like lovers. 

            * Hug your partner from behind next time they are brushing their teeth. 

            * Play slow music and treat your lover to a romantic dance. 

            * While your partner is busy around the home, walk by and stop to kiss him or her on the forehead. 

            * Offer a long, warm kiss to your love as soon as you walk in the door and        just as you leave each day. 

            * Sneak up on your love and surprise them with a nuzzle in their hair or neck. 

            * Run your fingers through your love's hair as you wait in a line. 

            * Rub up against your love's leg while sitting beside him or her. 

            * Place your hand on the small of her back as often as possible. 

             * Caress your partner's face or arms during a heart-to-heart. 

            * Catch your love’s eye while they are reading the newspaper or otherwise engaged in concentration.  When they look up and make eye contact back, smile and tell them how much you love them. 

            * When your lover dresses to go out, be sure to pay attention and direct your gaze to admire him or her with your eyes.  Tell them how fabulous they look and seal it with a kiss. 

Enhance Your Love Life In These Many Simple Ways.... 

 Showing someone that you care and that they are special to you does not need to be complicated. Some of the most touching ways of saying I LOVE YOU are the simplest and most appreciated. 

Adapt just a few today and watch as your love life takes wings.....and flies! 

~Give or get a hug for no reason 

~Tell the other person that they are important and respected 

~Kiss them when people are looking 

~Kiss them when people aren't looking 

~Tell the other person that you care deeply 

~Hold hands to show support 

~Go together for a long bike ride 

~Give a special present/give any present 

   ~Tell them you are there for them when they need you most 

   ~Spend quality time together every day 

   ~Enjoy a film together and put your arm around him or her during the story 

   ~Walk arm in arm through the woods 

   ~Compose a special tape of love songs just for him or her 

   ~Open up and share your feelings 

   ~Open up and share your dreams with each other 

   ~On a cold day snuggle up together/do this on any day just because 

   ~Sit for a long while together in the park 

   ~Take a long walk together 

   ~Enjoy a meal together and you pay 

   ~Enjoy a picnic indoors and roll around together on the floor 

   ~Enjoy an outdoor game of Frisbee together 

   ~Pay lots of lovely compliments 

   ~Get all heated up and relax in a Jacuzzi 

   ~Go for a hearty swim together 

   ~Feel close together and just relax 

   ~Shop for dinner together and you pay 

   ~Cook a good meal together and you do the dishes 

   ~Offer a loving touch 

   ~Plan and go on a wild trip together 

   ~Host a party for all of your mutual friends 

   ~Bake a yummy cake 

   ~Be quiet together in a library 

   ~Cultivate your culture and browse in a museum 

   ~Always be there for him or her 

   ~Find out what's meaningful for the other person - and then join with them 

   ~Get in good shape together 

   ~Look deeply into his or her eyes and just gaze 

   ~Wash your loved one’s car by hand 

   ~Land that big fish together/you bait your own hook 

   ~Talk to each other about everything 

~Share each others concerns 

   ~Agree on a favorite mutual love song and then sing it to him or her 

   ~Share in each others joys 

   ~Hold on closely to one another whenever you can swing it 

   ~Catch your loved one’s eye and hold it 

   ~Write that special love poem/note/letter and send it to him or her 

   ~Spend time talking on the telephone together when you are apart 

   ~Tell your loved one you trust him or her 

   ~Present your loved one with a ring 

   ~Spend time together visiting family 

   ~Spend time up in the mountains together 

   ~Don’t be afraid to give up something important for him or her 

   ~Send them their favorite chocolates often 

   ~Give respect to each other 

   ~Walk your hearts out to the light of the moon 

   ~Give a sexy look to him or her 

   ~Write your loved one a new poem 

   ~Send your loved one exotic arrangements of flowers often 

   ~Share your home cooked meal by candlelight 

   ~Rock the night away at a concert together 

   ~Watch as the sun starts to rise and think of your love of each other 

   ~Remember your anniversaries 

   ~Call each other by a pet name 

   ~Spend your holidays together sightseeing 

   ~Have a night in watching a funny video wrapped in a warm blanket 

   ~Do those special things for each other without being asked 

   ~Whisper sweet somethings into the other's ear 

   ~Vow to be best friends while being lovers 

   ~Make a date to have simple fun together 

   ~Kick up your heals and go out dancing together 

   ~Play your favorite classical music together 

   ~Determine to flirt with each other each day 

   ~Make a good joke to make him or her laugh each day 

   ~Tell your loved one you will always be faithful and mean it 

   ~Do something to impress each other 

   ~Present your loved one with a list of the things you like about him or her 

   ~Discuss the last book you read together 

   ~Make a point to meet each other’s friends 

   ~Enjoy a horse riding lesson together 

   ~Alternate nights and then cook each other's favorite food 

   ~Vow to do whatever it is that makes each other happiest 

   ~Create a new present for each other from your own hands 

   ~Offer to wash each other's hair 

   ~Enjoy watching the sunset together 

   ~Take a long bus trip and hold hands the entire time 

   ~Phone in a request for him or her to be played on the radio 

   ~Send your loved one a funny card 

   ~Talk with your loved one about your plans for the future and include them 

   ~Enjoy taking time to just play footsie 

   ~Share a funny, private joke only the two of you can share 

   ~When apart think of each other and what you will do when you meet 

   ~Have your picture taken together and then once framed you each have one 

If you were to do only a few of these suggestions each day, imagine how alive your love life would be! 

Next, we will talk about how Creative Planning Can Enhance Romance.